Category: Advice
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Dating After 40: The Bike Is on Fire

Dating after 40 can feel chaotic and frustrating, likened to riding a flaming bike in hell. Despite the challenges, such as navigating emotionally unavailable partners and shallow prospects, I remain hopeful and resilient. As I continue to believe in love, valuing self-awareness, boundaries, and trying to maintain a sense of humor amid the madness.
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Lessons from the Limerence

It always starts the same way: a spark, a glance, a flirty message that lands just right. But this time? He was younger. Not “I could be your babysitter back in the 90s” younger, but enough that I had at least two decades more therapy, heartbreak, and Saturn returns under my belt.


