Tag: Relationships
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Love as a Sanctuary: Embracing Heart-Centered Connections
Remind me that I do not have to become colder to be loved. That a tender heart is not something to fix, but something to honor. That my softness is not the problem—it’s the offering. And the right one will never ask me to harden what was meant to heal.
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When You Miss Someone Who Was Never Really There
There’s a special kind of grief that doesn’t come with closure.No big breakup. No dramatic ending.Just an ache. A haunting. A lingering “what if” in the middle of the night. Because sometimes… you miss someone who was never really there. Not in the way you needed.Not in the way you dreamed.Not in the way you let…
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The Red Flag Parade
10 Relationship Red Flags. Just because he’s in therapy doesn’t mean he’s ready. Don’t confuse awareness with availability.
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Dear Softness—I Thought You Made Me Weak
A love letter to the softness we’re taught to hide. Not weakness, but quiet strength—the kind that feels deeply, heals gently, and keeps showing up even after heartbreak.
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Thighs as Pillows: Part Two – The Morning After the Softness
There’s a certain kind of intimacy that doesn’t happen in the dark. It happens in the morning.
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Where Intimacy Lives
In the same way intimacy is born from presence, so too can your connection to yourself be nurtured with intentional, mindful moments. This tea ritual is designed to help you settle into your body, calm your nervous system, and deepen your relationship to self, so you can rest in the “Yes. You” and share that…
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Dating After 40: The Bike Is on Fire
Dating after 40 can feel chaotic and frustrating, likened to riding a flaming bike in hell. Despite the challenges, such as navigating emotionally unavailable partners and shallow prospects, I remain hopeful and resilient. As I continue to believe in love, valuing self-awareness, boundaries, and trying to maintain a sense of humor amid the madness.
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Spiritual AF But Still Swipe Right
There’s something wildly humbling about being a spiritually awakened woman on a dating app. One minute you’re meditating under the full moon with rose quartz on your womb, whispering mantras about sacred union. The next, you’re swiping right on a man named Chad who owns three kettlebells, lives with two roommates, and describes himself as…
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Lessons from the Limerence
It always starts the same way: a spark, a glance, a flirty message that lands just right. But this time? He was younger. Not “I could be your babysitter back in the 90s” younger, but enough that I had at least two decades more therapy, heartbreak, and Saturn returns under my belt.
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