Tag: tequila and tea
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The Red Flag Parade
10 Relationship Red Flags. Just because he’s in therapy doesn’t mean he’s ready. Don’t confuse awareness with availability.
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Dear Softness—I Thought You Made Me Weak
A love letter to the softness we’re taught to hide. Not weakness, but quiet strength—the kind that feels deeply, heals gently, and keeps showing up even after heartbreak.
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Thighs as Pillows: Part Two – The Morning After the Softness
There’s a certain kind of intimacy that doesn’t happen in the dark. It happens in the morning.
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Where Intimacy Lives
In the same way intimacy is born from presence, so too can your connection to yourself be nurtured with intentional, mindful moments. This tea ritual is designed to help you settle into your body, calm your nervous system, and deepen your relationship to self, so you can rest in the “Yes. You” and share that…
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Dating After 40: The Bike Is on Fire
Dating after 40 can feel chaotic and frustrating, likened to riding a flaming bike in hell. Despite the challenges, such as navigating emotionally unavailable partners and shallow prospects, I remain hopeful and resilient. As I continue to believe in love, valuing self-awareness, boundaries, and trying to maintain a sense of humor amid the madness.
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Spiritual AF But Still Swipe Right
There’s something wildly humbling about being a spiritually awakened woman on a dating app. One minute you’re meditating under the full moon with rose quartz on your womb, whispering mantras about sacred union. The next, you’re swiping right on a man named Chad who owns three kettlebells, lives with two roommates, and describes himself as…
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Dating Detox
There comes a moment in every conscious woman’s love life when the texts stop lighting you up, the swipes feel hollow, and the question “What are you looking for on here?” makes you want to throw your phone into a bowl of sea salt and moon water.
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Flirting with Volatility
They met on an investing platform. Yes, you read that right. Not Tinder. Not Hinge. Not even the Whole Foods hot bar (though that would’ve been cute). No—this modern love story began in the comments section of a post about cryptocurrency.
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Lessons from the Limerence
It always starts the same way: a spark, a glance, a flirty message that lands just right. But this time? He was younger. Not “I could be your babysitter back in the 90s” younger, but enough that I had at least two decades more therapy, heartbreak, and Saturn returns under my belt.
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Karmic Lessons & Shadow Work
The Real Love Curriculum Let’s talk about the kind of relationship that doesn’t just break your heart—it cracks you open. You know the one. The instant chemistry. The “I’ve known you in another lifetime” energy. The deep eye contact that makes you forget your own name… and your boundaries. You think it’s a soulmate.The Universe says: It’s a syllabus.…
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